In this article, we will tell you the key things you can do as a woman, to keep your man. We will also share with you the vital things a man expects from his woman.
Affection: Men yes do love sex, but they want to be loved as well. Thank him, cheer him and encourage him. Surprise him: unexpected kisses, hugs, romance, tell him about his looks, his masculine assertiveness and appreciate his efforts as a leader.
Trust: As a man, I want to be trusted. Some women, because they have had their bad past experience, they tend to think a new relationship will be equally bad. Most broken people get into relationships expecting the new partner to nurse their wounds. At times that perpetuates the previous problem. At most you need to learn that there was no problem. The real problem was & is still you. Heal and trust!
Attractiveness: Beauty is crucial for a man. He is moved by what he sees. So what he sees should be clean, cute, attractive and nice. Smell great all the time girl! Personally if there is anything that put me off, a bad smell just switches me off!
More Sex: Men want sex more than most women know. The more you have sex, with your man, the more you are connected with him. So, the lesser the sex, the bigger the gape that separates you both. I know at times as a women you won’t be wanting sex, but compromise plays a crucial role.
Quality Sex: No man wants dead wood in bed, make every sex experience count. Dance, move, tweak . Don’t just sleep like a dead cow.
Don’t Bribe Your Man Sexually: Don’t only give sex as to your man when he has done good, e.g giving you money or presents. Give sex also when things are not well. Some women only give because they have been given or they want something given-that bribery.
Sex Answers To Most Problems: Sex is important for man give it to him. Most marital problems start because someone lack sex. So, before they meet any beautiful lady in town, let you man meet you first. You would rather have sex before you get into any activities/ chores.
Don’t Be A Problem: Don’t become another problem to your man, do not try to influence him or challenge him to change. At times as men we have developed a mechanism where you think we will be listening, but not at all because you might be talking too much. At times a man will agree just to end the fight, that is what is called giving up. Most men would spend most of their times at church / beer hall or with friends more than with their wives. Why? That is called escapism, running away from the wife.
Tongue: Avoid negative, critical and spiteful comments to your man. Don’t compare your man to other men. If he does not sexually satisfy you, the best if never to confront him, but seek for a happy moment where you talk about your sexually fantasies. Use emotional intelligence. Tell him what you want sexually and what satisfies you. Your tone matters! Your mood! And your communications skills.
Men Suffer In Silence Too: Most men won’t talk that much, especially church men. They suffer from sexual starvation or sexual punishment, which leads to bitterness and frustration. To a man sex matters. You would rather stop everything and rock him wildly. A sex starved man can be dangerous.
Be Initiative: Women should start the game at times. Don’t wait for a man to always start it Noise it- Men wants to you to communicate what you feel. Scream. Men want to conquer as his lioness, show it off. Tell him, “Dady, you rock me in bed! You are my hero!
Moods: Women create fake moods, situations , sickness to avoid sex. That is dangerous. Psychological, that kills a man’s spirit. When you do that, it is registered into the man’s subconscious mind. That will grow to an extent your man does not push you for sex anymore. That when things fall apart.
Give Your Man Space: At times your man needs time to think and re-think and re-strategise. Give him that space. When your man comes from works, give him time rewind. Please don’t pile up everything on him. He needs time as well.
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